Side Effects Of Having Anal Sex
Story time! When I was in high school I didn’t realize I had lost my virginity at the age of 17. Now I know that sounds confusing and your asking yourself “Girl, how did you not realize that you wasn’t a virgin anymore ?” I say this because, I always thought that the only way to lose your virginity was vaginally, if you do it anally, you’re in the clear…WRONG! (I know, I was hella naive back then)
Anyway, when I first did anal sex, it actually wasn’t bad. I know a lot of women stray away from that when they have sex, cause typically that’s not their cup of tea. In all honesty, at the time I enjoyed anal sex more than I did vaginal sex.
Why Some Women Hate It
Listen, I personally feel like having anal sex , isn’t for the faint-hearted, you have to really be ready and willing (That sounds horrible I know) . Some may not have a great experience when they first do anal like I did. Here’s why;
Pain- If you hate being in pain, this is not for you. This is one of the top reasons why women say no to anal sex.
Feeling uncomfortable- the feeling of something going up your backside gives you a certain discomfort at first and some women may not like that.
The thought of it disgusts them- Believe it or not, some women do not like the thought of getting ‘pounded’ back there.
Residue: Not gonna lie, there will be…. *ahem*… stains… that will come out afterwards, or even during. So just make sure you lay down a towel if you feel like you’ll leave a mess.
Damaging the hole- Some women might think that they might rip their insides if they try anal. (By the way, so NOT true)
Why Women Love It
Just like there are some women who hate anal sex, there are also some who very much enjoy it. Here’s why;
The pressure feels good.
You’re not just pleasing yourself, but you’re pleasing your partner as well.
The amazing orgasms you get.
Anal sex is more likely to increase your g-spot stimulation, than increasing it when penetrated vaginally
Why You Should Do It?
Here’s why. The first time around it feels pretty amazing . Who knows you might even like it enough to do it as many times as you’d like. All in all you never want your sex life to get boring, and this change up is definitely something that will spice up your sex life in the bedroom! Don’t get me wrong though, If anal sex is not for you, that does not mean your sex life is basic, it just means it’s not for you. There are SO many other things for you and your partner to do, that having anal sex will be the last thing on your mind.
Would I Ever Do It Again?
Absolutely the hell not! There is a reason why I stopped having anal sex in high school . For one thing , when I finally did have sex vaginally, that’s all I ever did with my high-school boyfriend at the time. Then one day we decided to go back to doing anal after not doing it for so long, and let me tell you, that was freaking horrible. Of course not the sex , but the pain was excruciating. It didn’t matter how many times I tried to relax, or loosen up the hole, my ass hole was not having it. (Sorry if I’m being a bit too detailed but you get the point here) Anyway, anal sex was not my thing anymore , it wasn’t gonna happen for me. In the words of Game Of Thrones’, Arya Stark, “That’s not me”
Would you ladies give anal sex a chance? Let me know,comment below!
Until Next Time!